TO DO BEFORE I DO™ is a self-paced online premarital course for seriously dating, engaged, newlywed, and married couples. Our course addresses core topics to build a strong foundation and a healthy marriage.


Jenn Pinkerton is a psychotherapist, coach, sexologist, connection expert, writer, speaker, and host of REDHEADREVEAL® podcast. You can book a private coaching session by contacting us on our website.


“My husband and I have been married for 15 years but decided to take this course as an opportunity to reconnect with one another. This course opened conversations we have never addressed, even after years of marriage! We are grateful for the opportunity to strengthen our love.” - Erika and Michael

“I am getting married in the fall and wanted to take a premarital course with my fiancé. We are so happy we found To Do Before I Do. We both feel we have created a strong foundation for marriage after completing this course!” - Abby and Garrett

“Despite this being a premarital/marital course, I chose to take it as a single woman. I cannot express how much I have learned about myself and what I want in a future partner. I believe anyone can benefit from taking this course.” - Laurie

“As a busy parent, I appreciated that this course was self-paced, easy to work through, and digestible. It did not feel like another thing I had to check off my to-do list. Instead, I looked forward to working through it with my partner every night.” - Kennedy and Zachary

“My wife and I purchased this course for our anniversary. We spent our weekend working through the topics and reconnecting after two years of marriage. Neither of us had ever addressed our attachment styles prior to taking this course. I believe we now have a better understanding of how to meet each other’s needs. Can’t recommend this course enough!” - Allison and Rachel