{"id":30787,"date":"2020-09-09T10:01:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T15:01:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/?p=30787"},"modified":"2021-07-18T19:35:04","modified_gmt":"2021-07-19T00:35:04","slug":"life-as-an-engaged-confused-bride-starting-the-wedding-planning-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/life-as-an-engaged-confused-bride-starting-the-wedding-planning-journey\/","title":{"rendered":"My Life As An Engaged &amp; Confused Bride: Starting The Wedding Planning Journey"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_30788\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-30788\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-30788\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_010-4614.jpg\" alt=\"wedding planning, bride, engaged, tips, tricks, planning, pinterest\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_010-4614.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_010-4614-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-30788\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: Libby Neder Photography<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>My name is Tara and I am the Production Manager here at Weddings in Houston. In October 2019, I got engaged to my best friend after over four years together. I was ecstatic, finally all of my \u201cwedding industry knowledge\u201d could be put to use in planning my own wedding! I quickly found out that being on the bride\u2019s side of things is <em>entirely<\/em> different from the wedding media and marketing side.<\/p>\n<p>Engaged couples have their own set of challenges\u2014challenges that I, myself, have now been experiencing throughout my own wedding planning journey. In addition, with everything going on in the world, we engaged couples are having to navigate wedding planning in an unprecedented way. We are having to utilize virtual venue tours, video calls with potential vendors, and more to plan our upcoming weddings during a pandemic. \u2013 All while trying to remain hopeful that everything will be able to go as \u201cplanned\u201d. \u00a0I found that getting started was the hardest part of my own wedding planning process.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_30789\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-30789\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-30789 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_013-4655-e1599173711369.jpg\" alt=\"bride, diary, planning tips, engagement ring, wedding, pandemic\" width=\"660\" height=\"789\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_013-4655-e1599173711369.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_013-4655-e1599173711369-251x300.jpg 251w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-30789\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: Libby Neder Photography<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Planning a wedding, while working at a <em>WEDDING<\/em> magazine has been amazing, but it has brought its own challenges. My job exposes me to gorgeous <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/get-inspired\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wedding inspiration<\/a> and the most luxurious Houston <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/real-weddings\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">real weddings<\/a> on a daily basis. I\u2019ve seen the best of the best for everything wedding, but how do you narrow down a million ideas into <em>one<\/em> theme, <em>one<\/em> dress, <em>one<\/em> venue, for your <em>one<\/em> big day?<em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Not knowing where to even begin I took to my Pinterest board. Finally, my wedding planning board that I had been saving to for <em>years<\/em> could be put to use! However, I soon realized that my old Pinterest board, though filled with themes and ideas I once loved, was no longer relevant to what\u2019s trending or what I liked now that I\u2019m an <em>actual<\/em> bride. There\u2019s such a difference between loving and appreciating beautiful content and choosing what you <em>actually<\/em> want for your own wedding.<\/p>\n<p>So, I started over, creating a single wedding board with brand new ideas. I even made a collaborative board with my mom and sisters so that they could save their ideas too. I went back through all of my favorite Weddings in Houston featured weddings and styled shoots, saving my favorite ideas and visual inspiration.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_30792\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-30792\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-30792\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_054-5025.jpg\" alt=\"photography, planning, wedding tips, pinterest, advice, series, engaged, confused, diary of a bride\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_054-5025.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/TaraMichael_LibbyNederPhotography_054-5025-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-30792\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: Libby Neder Photography<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>After weeks of pinning, I finally decided on a \u201cWinter, modern-chic, barn theme\u201d. I then created a new board for my winter wedding inspiration. Within that board I organized my ideas even further, making sections for wedding dresses, flowers, color palettes, wedding cakes, and more. Pinterest has truly been my best friend for organizing all of my random, varying ideas and inspiration. It also helped me to have organized thoughts and examples when I met with potential wedding planners. <em>Pro Tip: Get a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/wedding-vendors\/wedding-planners\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wedding planner<\/a>, they will save you from a lot of unnecessary stress<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h6>If you\u2019re overwhelmed with trying to figure out how to begin your wedding planning journey, I definitely suggest browsing through real weddings and styled shoot inspiration \u2013 and be sure to follow Weddings in Houston on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/wedinhouston\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pinterest<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/weddingsinhouston\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a> too!<\/h6>\n<p>Follow along on the blog, or subscribe to <a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/weddingsinhouston.com\/join-the-list?utm_source=MailChimp-BuzzLandingPage&amp;utm_medium=WIHwebsite&amp;utm_campaign=buzz_signup\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Wedding Buzz Newsletter<\/a> for wedding tips, inspiration and to follow my wedding planning journey through my <em>\u201cLife As An Engaged &amp; Confused Bride\u201d<\/em> series!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My name is Tara and I am the Production Manager here at Weddings in Houston. 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