{"id":23566,"date":"2018-01-08T06:00:13","date_gmt":"2018-01-08T12:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/?p=23566"},"modified":"2018-01-11T12:56:02","modified_gmt":"2018-01-11T18:56:02","slug":"8-tips-for-a-perfect-marriage-proposal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/8-tips-for-a-perfect-marriage-proposal\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Tips For A Perfect Marriage Proposal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;ve been with your partner for a while now, and the relationship is stronger and more stable than ever. Life without this person seems\u00a0unimaginable and you know that there is no other person you&#8217;ll ever love more. You&#8217;re ready to make the decision of a lifetime, and ask your partner to spend the rest of their life with you.\u00a0Yeah, let&#8217;s repeat that: You&#8217;re ready to ask your partner to <em>spend the rest of their life with you<\/em>. It&#8217;s a big question, and a BIG moment, and you&#8217;re likely to need a little guidance. So, here you go:<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9304\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HayleyJeffEngagement053.jpg\" alt=\"Downtown Brenham Engagement Shoot by Sarah Ainsworth Photography\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HayleyJeffEngagement053.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HayleyJeffEngagement053-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo:\u00a0Sarah Ainsworth Photography<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. TEST THE WATERS BEFORE POPPING THE QUESTION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before asking your partner the big question, make sure this is something they see as a possibility for your relationship. Marriage should be a subject you&#8217;ve both discussed at some point in your relationship, along with the question of <!--more-->children. Does your partner share your views and\/or values? Asking these questions will help you in the long run. There&#8217;s nothing worse than proposing and receiving a, &#8220;Let me think about it,&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;m not ready for that yet.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12174\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/DK_Engagements-192.jpg\" alt=\"Romantic-Engagement-Photo-Shoot\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/DK_Engagements-192.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/DK_Engagements-192-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/civic-photos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Civic Photos<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. NIX THE AUDIENCE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keeping this in mind, you&#8217;re also more likely to get an honest answer if you keep the proposal private, or at the very least, semi-private. You&#8217;ll know their &#8220;Yes&#8221; is heartfelt, and not forced due to the pressure of curious eyes and inquiring minds. At the same time, if the answer is anything but &#8220;Yes,&#8221; having the moment be a private one will spare both of you embarrassment.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2575\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/ARR-Ring.jpg\" alt=\"ArtCarved Diamond Ring\" width=\"400\" height=\"446\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/ARR-Ring.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/ARR-Ring-269x300.jpg 269w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ring: Art Carved available at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/zadok-jewelers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Zadok Jewelers<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. FIND THE RIGHT RING<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An engagement ring is a huge investment, both financially, and as a piece of jewelry your partner will wear forever, so make sure it&#8217;s the right one. Take the opportunity to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/wedding-professionals\/wedding-style\/jewelry\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">browse<\/a> rings together casually when out shopping, or enlist the help of someone close to your partner, such as her mother or a close friend, who knows her taste and what she might want.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22421\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/mn_eng_036-Edit-SMALL.jpg\" alt=\"Adam- Nyholt- engagement- shoot\" width=\"660\" height=\"441\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/mn_eng_036-Edit-SMALL.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/mn_eng_036-Edit-SMALL-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/adam-nyholt-photographer\/\">Adam Nyholt Photography<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. KEEP IT SIMPLE AND BE PREPARED<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can have the most detailed and complicated proposal plan&#8230;and things can still fall apart. Life is unpredictable, so keep this in mind when planning your proposal. You should you have a Plan B, and even a Plan C, and keep your surprise simple. It&#8217;ll make\u00a0adjustments easier in case your original plan doesn&#8217;t work out.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21280\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Serendipity-Photography-Engagement-1.jpg\" alt=\"Serendipity-Photography-Engagement-1\" width=\"660\" height=\"439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Serendipity-Photography-Engagement-1.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Serendipity-Photography-Engagement-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo:\u00a0Serendipity Photography<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. KNOW YOUR PARTNER<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Be sure you know your partner&#8217;s like and wants enough to tailor a proposal they will never forget&#8211;one that truly shows just how much you care. Remember, this moment is about the person you are proposing to, not just you.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-23240\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IDoSoiree1017_TheAstorian_AMAPhotography__TaylorGolden_0881_WEBSIZE.jpg\" alt=\"IDoSoiree1017_TheAstorian_AMAPhotography__TaylorGolden_0881_WEBSIZE\" width=\"660\" height=\"990\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photos: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/ama-photography-cinema\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">AMA Photography &amp; Cinema<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>6. HIRE A PHOTOGRAPHER<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A marriage proposal (especially when it&#8217;s one that, as we&#8217;ve mentioned before, has been discussed and is somewhat expected and hoped-for) is a momentous occasion and deserves to be documented. Being able to look back at photos of your partner&#8217;s reactions and the moment will prove to be an invaluable gift you&#8217;ll both treasure. These Houston\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/wedding-professionals\/documenting-the-day\/photographers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">photographers<\/a> can offer suggestions for capturing the moment magnificently!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15894\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2015-05-30_0012.jpg\" alt=\"Contemporary Engagement Shoot by Civic Photos\" width=\"660\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2015-05-30_0012.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2015-05-30_0012-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/civic-photos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Civic Photos<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>7. CHOOSE A MEMORABLE LOCATION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The location of your proposal will be the first thing you&#8217;ll recall about the moment down the road. Whether it&#8217;s in Paris under the city lights or somewhere you both shared a special experience such as a first date, make sure it&#8217;s romantic.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15916\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/2015-06-01_0011.jpg\" alt=\"Glam Engagement Shoot at Chateau Cocomar by Civic Photos\" width=\"660\" height=\"989\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/2015-06-01_0011.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/2015-06-01_0011-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/vendor\/civic-photos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Civic Photos<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>8. SPEAK FROM THE HEART<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once the moment comes, you will be nervous and emotions will run high. Although preparing beforehand what you&#8217;ll say is always a plus, some of the best proposals come when you say what you&#8217;re truly feeling in that moment. Also be sure to tell your partner <em>why<\/em> you want to marry them.\u00a0There&#8217;s nothing\u00a0more meaningful than hearing why someone wants you in their life&#8230;forever.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;ve been with your partner for a while now, and the relationship is stronger and more stable than ever. Life without this person seems\u00a0unimaginable and you know that there is no other person you&#8217;ll ever love more. 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