{"id":102,"date":"2009-05-20T12:20:14","date_gmt":"2009-05-20T19:20:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/houstonweddingblog.com\/?p=102"},"modified":"2012-07-13T08:43:47","modified_gmt":"2012-07-13T15:43:47","slug":"tipping-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/tipping-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Tipping Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-103\" title=\"wih-blogpost-5-dwphoto2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/wih-blogpost-5-dwphoto2-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"wih-blogpost-5-dwphoto2\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/wih-blogpost-5-dwphoto2-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/www.weddingsinhouston.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/wih-blogpost-5-dwphoto2.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Photo courtesy <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dwphotoz.com\/\">DW Photography<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Here\u2019s what\u2019s fun about planning your wedding: trying on gorgeous gowns, indulging in caterer and cake tastings, picking out fantastic florals and luxurious linens, getting your hair and makeup done by a professional, fantasizing about your fabulous life as the future Mrs. So-and-So.<span> <\/span>Here\u2019s what\u2019s not: figuring out whom and how much to tip. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>While tipping wedding vendors (or restaurant waiters for that matter) is not mandatory, it is, generally, expected, particularly when a superior level of service is provided, as it is by the vast majority of Houston wedding professionals.<span> <\/span>So, working on the assumption that your wedding will be wonderful, you should calculate appropriate gratuities well ahead of time, and make sure that they are distributed properly. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Follow these tipping guidelines, and you\u2019ll do right by your vendors, while keeping your budget in check\u2014a big plus in these tough economic times: <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Officiant: $50-$100, before wedding day, or at end of ceremony. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Caterer: Check first to find out if a staff gratuity has already been added to your total.<span> <\/span>If it hasn\u2019t, figure $100-$200 for banquet manager and $20-$40 each for wait staff and bartenders.<span> <\/span>Alternately, you can tip 18-20% of the catering bill total, and leave it up to staff to divide accordingly, though this usually ends up being more expensive.<span> <\/span>Either way, hand out envelope(s) with cash at end of reception. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>D.J.\/Musicians: $20-$25 per musician; $25-$35 for D.J., if you book through an agency.<span> <\/span>For an independent band or D.J., tipping is optional. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Parking attendants: $1 per car.<span> <\/span>Give envelope of cash to valet manager or maitre d\u2019 at end of reception to divide among attendants. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Hair\/Makeup Stylist: 18-20% of bill, in cash if possible. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Wedding Coordinator: Tips are generally not expected, but it is always nice to acknowledge a coordinator who has done a spectacular job.<span> <\/span>You can give cash at your discretion, or a thoughtful gift, such as flowers, an accessory such as a silk wrap or cashmere scarf, a unique or elegant home d\u00e9cor item, or a gift certificate for dining or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.houstonian.com\/TheSpa.aspx\">spa<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>For all reception-related tips, put your coordinator in charge of handing out envelopes.<span> <\/span>As a bride, you\u2019ll be focused on other things, like enjoying the happiest day of your life\u2014assigning tipping to a designated person will ensure that everyone gets what\u2019s coming to them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo courtesy DW Photography Here\u2019s what\u2019s fun about planning your wedding: trying on gorgeous gowns, indulging in caterer and cake tastings, picking out fantastic florals and luxurious linens, getting your hair and makeup done by a professional, fantasizing about your fabulous life as the future Mrs. So-and-So. 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